Not playing games dating
It gets people hurt, builds up false hopes, and makes us all a little crazy when it could just be simple. Andrea Wesley Andrea is a 31 year old freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada.
She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry.
But the fact that they still give you some kind of encouraging signal suggests that you are the one they want to get “caught” by.
But if you find yourself in the situation of not knowing whether they will even answer your calls, then the chances are, you are not their type.
You wouldn’t call them back when they called you and you would consciously wait a few days before getting back to them (seriously, did that really work? This is playing games with the intent to manipulate someone into liking you. This doesn’t mean however that we have to lay all our cards out on the table when we meet someone new. Using constructive psychology is a different story all together.
The guy or girl playing hard to get will still give off those tell tale signs that we just mentioned.
You will feel encouraged and even though they are playing hard to get, you can still talk to them and approach them.
He sometimes takes 2-3 hours to return texts or phone calls, and is often not available when you want to get together.
If you then return all his texts immediately and always make yourself available to see him, then this isn’t a level playing field.