Why is dating so scary
Perhaps my perspective here might help you when seeking your next mate on there (or not). I turned 19 and I was good with finding and meeting prospective dates on there.
You were defined by how cool your My Space layout was – animated GIFs, custom CSS and your favorite embedded You Tube video.
The DSM-5 defines social anxiety as the “persistent fear of one or more situations in which the person is exposed to possible scrutiny by others and fears that he or she may do something or act in a way that will be humiliating or embarrassing.” Those who are shy, if not socially anxious, tend to experience social situations in a more reserved, tense and uncomfortable manner, especially when meeting new people.
After the fall of My Space, I eventually created my Ok Cupid account.
I really got into the quizzes that members could take. Ok Cupid prides themselves on the ability to match people based on responses to their surveys.
In this day and age of sharing so much about ourselves to a wide audience, it is best to keep things chill for at least a little while with your new guy. The best thing we can all do is pay more attention to ourselves and allow others to be as they are. There is something to be said about a person who can truly go with the flow.
How about really getting to know him before you introduce him to 348 Facebook followers? Another behavior that strikes fear into the hearts of men is the woman who wants to spend every waking moment with the guy she's just started dating. If something comes up and a guy has to change your date from Tuesday to Thursday, the worst thing you can do is to not be understanding about it.